When I first read Greg Baer’s pivotal book, “Real Love,” the moment I finished it, I called him on the phone to tell him how wonderful it was and that even as good as it was, it could not convey the experience of real love. Greg laughed out loud for at least a minute and said, “Oh, my God, someone I don’t have to explain this to.”
What makes us think that talking about thoughts and ideas has anything to do with love or any other genuine feeling?